My name is Safwan Ali. 

I graduated from college with a business management degree, and now after 6 years, I'm working in one of the well-known telecom companies in the Middle East. 

Even though I never dreamed or pursued to work in such a job, I'm just like any other guy who had to go with whatever works best, I heard that business management major has well_paid jobs so I went for it.

when I was little I wanted to become a successful football player.

yeah, I actually had the biggest admiration of Real Madrid football club. 

I always boasted in front of my friends that I would become the next Zidan... I even played in his possession and copied his tricks and all, 

but unfortunately, I failed to copy his volleyball legendary goal

* Flashback 

"Safwan over here pass!!" 

Yelled my friend, Karam, seeing I was surrounded by many defenders while he was running free I passed him the ball, then I ran ahead toward the other team's goal, he managed to dribble through the defenders, then he aimed at the goal and strikes the ball, the ball hit the crossbar and bounced back at my direction, instead of simply receiving the ball with my shoulder and then strike it, I thought I could try and copy Zidane’s volleyball, but unfortunately, I missed it, and one of the other team's players took it and had a successful counterattack against us, we lost sadly. 

*end of flashback 

Anyway Alhamdulillah, I have a secured job now , I was an honor student in college so my professors recommended me to various companies, and after a few months I was hired . recently my mom had been talking about finding me a good wife. 

Well, why not, after all marriage is a Sunna and half of a man's religion as they say.

However, I’m not thrilled about the process, you see ever since I was young, I’ve only been interested in sport, studying and learning new stuff all the time, when I was a teenager whenever my friends invites me to go out to meet girls, and go on dates I would refuse, because my father raised me the Islamic way, he used to say that when the right time comes I’ll surly meet the right person, and to earn a good wife I must become a good man, that’s way I decided that I won’t date and hang out with stranger girls just for fun and to look cool, like most of my friends do, because this isn’t how a true Muslim behaves, if you’re serious about someone then you should make it clear and official by asking for her hand in marriage not by and making her wait for nothing.

That’s why I spent most of my time studying and learning, because I knew that otherwise I would be wasting my time and energy in pointless teenage drama.

But on the other hand, the idea of a traditional marriage still sound odd to me, but well it wouldn’t hurt to try